It has been suggested that the superiority complex evolved as a result of mankind’s effort to resolve feelings of inferiority. Feeling superior to others is a coping mechanism for some, who are actually feeling depressed or inferior to others. [4] X Research source
Arrogance: A person will display signs of haughty superiority, feeling that they rate above those they deem beneath them. Being a braggart: The superior person enjoys telling outlandish tales that put them in the spot light. They also are very proud of material possessions and will happily brag to anyone who will listen. Interrupting: The superior person will have an opinion about every topic, whether they are knowledgeable on the subject or not. As they feel they have such important offerings, they feel interrupting is their right. Thinking they are always right/you are always wrong: It does not matter the situation, the argument, or the logic, they are always right. Anyone that does not agree with them, or heaven forbid, vocally disagrees with them, is an idiot. Lacking empathy: People with this complex do not have the ability to feel empathy; they tend to be cold hearted. They do not possess the ability to feel the pain of another. Mood swings: Feeling that they are all knowing and great at all they do, the superior person is subject to overthinking and problems resolving issues internally. This facade leads to poor judgement, and emotional outbursts. Fearful and insecure: Most people with a positive self-image and self-esteem carry themselves positively, without fear or insecurity. People with a superiority complex usually have a subconscious belief that they are actually not good enough and not superior. Anxiety issues: With the image they project, and the truth of who they are, a person with a superiority complex suffers great anxiety keeping everything straight in their minds. Dealing with dual personalities make this condition even more difficult to manage.
A person with an inferiority complex feels inadequate in comparison to their peers. A person with a superiority complex feels they are above or out-rank their peers. A person with an inferiority complex is constantly self-doubting. A person with superiority complex is overly confident. A person with an inferiority complex can hide his/her insecurities by using the mask of a superiority complex. Ultimately this means they likely have deep-rooted feelings of depression and sadness.
Do not take appreciation so seriously: It is wonderful and everyone enjoys feeling appreciated. What is most important is how one feels about themselves. Though it feels great to receive a compliment, it is integral to not let it inflate one’s opinion of themselves. Acknowledge the remark with simple thank you, and carry on with the general conversation. Resist being the know-it-all: The superior person may find themselves in familiar situations, where they know the best way to complete a task. They must resist taking charge. Let others voice their opinions. Work collectively as a group, giving others the opportunity to learn. Practice gratitude: Practicing gratitude is one of the best ways to alleviate a negative mindset. Being appreciative of the simple joys around you, the people in your life who love you, and the things you love to do can take your mind away from negative actions such as judging and comparing, can lift your mood, improve your self-esteem, and shift your mindset. Stop being judgmental: A person with a superiority complex must realize that their opinion is just that; it is their opinion. Not everyone may agree, which is their right. Every person is entitled to their own opinion. To facilitate change, reign in the tendency to be the know-it-all. Be open to listening and accepting of the opinion of others and never take part in gossip! Understand that everyone has strengths and weaknesses: Those having a superiority complex may have one of a kind qualities and be exceptional in certain areas of life. They may be very intelligent academically, and, rightfully so, be proud of their accomplishments. Remember, however, that there are smarter people, more exceptional people in the world. It is very important to possess humility. Acknowledge others and their accomplishments. Learning to show support of others is important in order for them to be accepted by their peers.
This is why it is so important for one suffering from this complex, to maintain friendships, especially close friendships, with those they trust. When trying to battle superiority complex, it helps to have someone that can help them stay focused on their goal. [8] X Research source
